I was watching two of my grandkids the other day. One grandson from one of my children, and one granddaughter from another. Cousins. It was amazing to me how when they first saw each other, they screamed in excitement. They yelled each other’s names. They ran toward each other, as if they hadn’t seen each other in a long time. Then, in an instant it happened. One had a toy that the other wanted. The struggle began. The territorial spirit took over. All excitement over seeing each other was lost in selfishness and control. Then it reversed. The other had a toy that the first one wanted. The struggle continued. Of course, in an instant, they forgot all about it and were lying next to each other on a bean bag, watching cartoons, as cute as can be.
We have all seen it before. It is a battle that we all have. We may not be children anymore, but we still struggle with selfishness and wanting what someone else has. (covetousness)
What is it in us, that finds it so hard to be content?
I think it’s in our definition. What is your definition of contentment or happiness? Some say “I’ll be happy when I make $1 million dollars.” While others say, “I’ll be happy to have something to eat each day.” Who is more likely to find happiness?
Have a realistic definition of what makes you happy. Dream big. Plan big. Think big. But have realistic expectations for what defines happiness for you, or you will live a frustrated life.
The word of the day is contentment. You will only find real contentment in Jesus Christ.
Philippians 4:11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.